Date Safe

We want your dating experience to be fun, enjoyable and safe. Follow tips provided by the Online Dating Association (ODA) for a safe and great experience.

Personal information you disclose to us

• The person you are messaging may be everything you wished for... but you haven't met him or her yet.
• Treat people as you would if meeting in person, by asking questions and taking your time. Be cautious about how much information you share.
• Check the person online using Google image search, TinEye, and also check social media to see if their details match.
  

Stay on the site messaging service

• Many dating services offer chat and messaging services as a secure and safe way to help you get to know people.
• Scammers will try to get you away from the dating services as soon as possible. So make the most of the added security the dating services offer by staying within their messaging services.
• Be wary of anyone who presses you to move your conversation away from the service too quickly.

Never, ever send money to someone you meet online

• Everyone should be on a dating service looking for a new relationship. Any request for money should ring an alarm bell, however sad or urgent their story.
• Scammers want one thing and one thing only - money.
• Sudden declarations of love may sound nice, but there may be another motive.
• Report anyone who requests money to the dating service immediately.

Let others help and guide you: talk to family and friends about your dating choices

• Sometimes a second opinion can really help if you are uncertain over someone or something. If friends have doubts listen to them.
• Be wary if you meet someone online who asks you not to tell anyone about them.

Stay in control – never feel pressured to do or disclose anything

• Once you've shared it you cannot take it back.
• When it comes to pictures, only share images that you wouldn't mind others seeing.
• Not yet met the person? Take your time: don't share personal details until you feel ready.

On a date

• Tell a friend your plans. Tell someone you trust that you are going on a date and give them details of where you are going.
• Arrange your own transport. Don't let your date pick you up from home on your first meeting. And have a plan for getting home.
• Keep it public. When you meet someone for the first time, do it in a public place like a bar or cafe. Do not go to their home or yours, and don't give out your address.
• Stay in control. You may be nervous but watch your alcohol intake. Don't leave your drink or personal items unattended.

Reporting another member

It's really important to us that Milyo is a safe place for honest people. If you suspect that someone is abusing the system in any way, TELL US! No harm can be done by letting us know and that person won't know that you have said anything. Email us at support@milyoapp.com